OK I removed the "smtp_tls_security_level = may" which is missing - and checked again. After removing it there was no ssl connection between the servers.
So it seemed for me that it is acting as client. After searching in the internet I found an article which says that postfix ist always acting as server for incoming mails and as client for sending mails. If this is correct the "smtp_tls_security_level = may" setting is needed too (like it is now for my environment)).
Sources: http://serverfault.com/a/521420 or http://www.ceus-now.com/when-does-postfix-act-like-a-client/
I am not as deep into postfix as your are - so it would be great if you could check/verify that if possible. For me I am adding this client configuration setting because it is working and seem to be needed (for me).